If you can't say you're hurt when you feel hurt, you're not family. If you can't say you're happy when you're happy, you're not family. A sweet and soft ice cream cone isn't enough to make a family. Pain, happiness and love must be shared, and you must endure all hardships in prayer until you can feel good together. That's how we become a family. You must be able to express your sadness and be able to cry together to be a family. You must be able to express your happiness and be able to be happy for one another to be a family. You must feel like you're under the same blanket no matter where you are.