how to process emotions

processing emotions + a year clean

Healing isn't linear. I'm writing this now because I know there will be days that I might relapse again. I want to immortalize these thoughts into words so I can have a reminder to myself. I hope that it can be a reminder to you as well – that emotions are fleeting, but our words and actions are not. I hope we can live with fewer regrets. Also, I believe that if we can be mindful of our emotions, be in touch with it, we can react in a way that won't destroy ourselves and others.

cat adoption

How I found my new cat through Twitter…

My pets are stray cats that just magically appeared on our doorstep, and of course, the more you feed them, the more they would stay. So stay they did until days turn to a year and so. I gave them names; I play with them. They make me sane. I hate how I become so attached and emotionally dependent to them, too. Sigh.

life chapters

beautiful souls and favorite happenstance

The people in our lives are like chapters in a book. We meet them in certain happenstance, and sometimes, they just stay there. We can’t really expect them to be there in the succeeding chapters, and that’s fine because they still serve their purpose. They still impart something on us; they are still part of the story.

mikrokosmos bts

in one corner of everyday…

"And I thought, that's 'cause they're fishes. They were supposed to swim. Just like people are supposed to keep going."

self expression through arts

how do you express yourself?

How about you? How do you express yourself?

hard on yourself

are you too hard on yourself?

If being hard on ourselves mean we just want to be the best version that we possibly can, then be it.

blogging

new gigs and tattoo

Remember when I said I’m getting a tattoo when I turned 25? It finally happened last month.