Healing isn’t linear. I’m writing this now because I know there will be days that I might relapse again. I want to immortalize these thoughts into words so I can have a reminder to myself. I hope that it can be a reminder to you as well – that emotions are fleeting, but our words and actions are not. I hope we can live with fewer regrets.
Also, I believe that if we can be mindful of our emotions, be in touch with it, we can react in a way that won’t destroy ourselves and others. … More processing emotions + a year clean
You can still build good moments in places where bad memories took place. … More life, loss, and the things I have learned at 26
With this, I believe first impression lasts, given that some of my friends still remember. Maybe, firsts are really instilled in our brain hard. Though, I also believe that not all first impressions matter in the long run, especially when it’s not the real you. Maybe the first impression says so much about the one taking us in instead of us coming off as something. … More does first impression last?
And somehow, time seems to be timeless. … More Time and Tides
I just mentioned on my previous post that I lost the will to blog, but I got an email about my current plan. This year is my 5th year blogging (not that I’ve been doing it consistently the first 3 years). I asked myself if it is still worth it to renew. Will I lose … More an email – a reminder to blog?
Before, I really make time for this. No excuses. I will write anything, but maybe that’s when I lost it. I just write, without a purpose. I just write to release. While that is a purpose in itself, it only benefits me. It is different reaching out to people and have your words make its impact, touching other’s heartstrings. I lost that magic, I believe. So maybe—just maybe—I am discouraged? I want my writings to be useful if you know what I mean. … More What Do You Do When You Lose the Will to Blog?
It is also when the thought of co-creating comes to mind. I believe in Amor Fati so much—the things we can control and the things we can’t. We co-create this life we have. Sure, there’s ‘God-will’ but also free will. Nothing is absolute. … More Astrology: A Tool Not a Belief System
I chose the word to remind myself that I have a control over my brain instead of the other way around. … More Word of the Year + why I don’t like to write poems anymore